Real 12 Step Recovery
Real 12 Step Recovery, Getting and Staying Clean and Sober
WELCOME Hi There, this blog will be about what I believe to be REAL RECOVERY not band aids or feel good BS These are the hard cold true facts that I have learned and been taught by OLD TIMERS and People WHO HAVE REMAINED CLEAN and SOBER and "GOT A LIFE".There will be no original thoughts here, Because in essence there are no original thoughts only perhaps originals and/or different ways to present or illustrate old Ideas.Now that this is understood lets get to the heart of the matter. Recovery is not about coddling or enabling. IT IS LIFE CHANGING. PERIOD WELCOME to the hardest thing that you will do in YOUR LIFE. Make no mistake, Real recovery is not EASY, it is simple, very simple, Yet you will make it hard, as all before you have. Also let's get this STRAIGHT right off the top. REAL RECOVERY has nothing to do about ALCOHOL and/or Drugs. IT IS about the way you react to life, your perceptions, and YOUR actions. Alcohol and/or Drugs are just a symptom of YOUR disease. Take notice of the word DISEASE - Which in our case translates to ILL AT EASE or simply not at ease, which is the basic nature of our problem and answer to our solution.Back to why I state that this is the hardest thing you will do. I state this because Real Recovery Will challenge everything you know/believe or really what you think you know, Because you really don't know SHIT or you wouldn't need recovery. It will make you face the truth about your biggest problem YOU and YOUR THINKING. You will face the real you not the one we would like to see with all the justifications and rationalizations just the TRUE YOU.REMEMBER GOD DOES NOT CREATE GARBAGE >>>>>>>> If you have a request or enquiry Please Email me at wiledchild@live.ca I'd like to add one other thing here for all those who read this Blog. It's something that was taught to me That was invaluable to my recovery My Spiritual Advisor Taught me this. Don't believe a word I say , do not take what I say as the truth just because I say it or anybody else, for that matter. Check it out for yourself. Try it on for size. Investigate , find out for YOURSELF only use what you have read or heard as a reference point. Find the truth out for yourself . This way it is your TRUTH not someone else's. You will also not be believing a lie or untruth if you always check things for yourself . Do not believe everything you are told or read without checking it out.

Friday, January 14, 2011

Love is Letting Go of Fear>>> continued

Hello all, and now to continue where we left off yesterday. We all, to a degree create our own distortions of seeing, hearing and experiencing love within ourselves and others. This self created distortion is our way of retaining an old belief system, even though it does not produce what we truly want. It is more so intact, because it is what we know, and has become entrenched in our thinking.
Let us look at how our mind has worked. It can be said that the mind works as an old movie projector; as such it holds thousand of reels of past experiences. Now depending on the triggers and the circumstances, these images (past experiences) get superimposed over people and events happening in the present. Thus we never truly experience the present and those in it as it is, we perceive it through tons of old memories that we layer over the actual present. To truly experience the present. We must consciously wipe away all that is past from what we are experiencing except love. This requires willingness and courage, to let go of past attachments of guilt, shame and fear.
It also requires a determined effort to stay in the now. We seem to put more effort into predicting and controlling the future and the present than in to experiencing “Peace of Mind”. We are stuck in a pattern of predicting the pain that will happen, and take pleasure in our prediction, as opposed to finding true happiness in the moment. We do this as a means of protecting self and remaining safe. Thus creating a short circuit that confuses pleasure with pain. It is an insane way of protecting ourselves, which really has kept us from true happiness.
This mindset produces the belief that the fears of the past can accurately predict the fears of the future. Producing a mindset spent mostly in the worries of the past or in the worries of tomorrow, leaving little or no room for enjoyment of Love and Joy in the present.
However thanks to the gift of freewill, we can essentially create our own reality. With this we can choose to see the truth. We can experience love as the truth of our reality. We have to refuse to be limited by the fears of the past and/or future, or by possible “realities” that have adopted from society. We make a conscious effort to live in the only true reality there is, the now.
Seeing that are minds are limitless and without boundaries, in fact the only limits on our minds is the ones we place on them. When we choose value on a past fear we limit our mind to seeing a fearful past as a reality. Thus limiting the actual reality and further limiting our minds as perceiving the future with fear. This incapacitates the ability to pause and experience the present in peace and contentment. When we use words such as “can’t, impossible,” we impose the limits of a fearful past upon ourselves, as such we self impose limits on our futures and possibilities.
To be continued
Remember God does not create garbage

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