Real 12 Step Recovery
Real 12 Step Recovery, Getting and Staying Clean and Sober
WELCOME Hi There, this blog will be about what I believe to be REAL RECOVERY not band aids or feel good BS These are the hard cold true facts that I have learned and been taught by OLD TIMERS and People WHO HAVE REMAINED CLEAN and SOBER and "GOT A LIFE".There will be no original thoughts here, Because in essence there are no original thoughts only perhaps originals and/or different ways to present or illustrate old Ideas.Now that this is understood lets get to the heart of the matter. Recovery is not about coddling or enabling. IT IS LIFE CHANGING. PERIOD WELCOME to the hardest thing that you will do in YOUR LIFE. Make no mistake, Real recovery is not EASY, it is simple, very simple, Yet you will make it hard, as all before you have. Also let's get this STRAIGHT right off the top. REAL RECOVERY has nothing to do about ALCOHOL and/or Drugs. IT IS about the way you react to life, your perceptions, and YOUR actions. Alcohol and/or Drugs are just a symptom of YOUR disease. Take notice of the word DISEASE - Which in our case translates to ILL AT EASE or simply not at ease, which is the basic nature of our problem and answer to our solution.Back to why I state that this is the hardest thing you will do. I state this because Real Recovery Will challenge everything you know/believe or really what you think you know, Because you really don't know SHIT or you wouldn't need recovery. It will make you face the truth about your biggest problem YOU and YOUR THINKING. You will face the real you not the one we would like to see with all the justifications and rationalizations just the TRUE YOU.REMEMBER GOD DOES NOT CREATE GARBAGE >>>>>>>> If you have a request or enquiry Please Email me at wiledchild@live.ca I'd like to add one other thing here for all those who read this Blog. It's something that was taught to me That was invaluable to my recovery My Spiritual Advisor Taught me this. Don't believe a word I say , do not take what I say as the truth just because I say it or anybody else, for that matter. Check it out for yourself. Try it on for size. Investigate , find out for YOURSELF only use what you have read or heard as a reference point. Find the truth out for yourself . This way it is your TRUTH not someone else's. You will also not be believing a lie or untruth if you always check things for yourself . Do not believe everything you are told or read without checking it out.

Friday, November 26, 2010

Just for Today// One Day at a Time

Living in today. This helps applying the last post. However the truth is that, like the saying, most of us spend our days either living in the past and/or future, thus with one leg and yesterday and one leg in tomorrow, you are pissing all over today. Today is a gift from God that is why it’s called the present. Ok enough of the clichés, however do you know how a saying becomes a cliché? The test of time has proven it as a truth! Anyways back to the topic at hand. A lot of us spend enormous amounts of time reliving past experiences, mistakes choices. It is all a waste of time! History cannot be changed; perhaps a very small time can be spent constructively learning from the error. However key word small amount. The past is the past; Let the dead bury the dead. There is a very large amount of us who spend far too much time in the future. Dreaming of a better life, instead of creating it today. Worrying about how the kids are going to be able to go to college/university. How this or that is going to get paid. Not to mention the incredible amount of time spent fruitlessly on “what ifs”. You may have an inkling of what the future MAY bring. However in reality you can never fully know. Life can change in an instant! Nobody woke up today planning to fall from a ladder, drown, have a car accident, be hit by a vehicle, slip on a walkway and become paralyzed ETC... In short Life happens. Yes you can spend a LITTLE amount planning for things a vacation, bill payments, retirement and planning a budget, however these are short little chores. Done and over with, occasionally a little time spent re-evaluating and adjusting.

However Life is what happens when you’re planning for it, unfortunately for most, by the time they finish planning and refining their plans for life it is almost over and they have missed the best parts. There are no ordinary moments. Life is NOW. Live it. Experience it. This does not mean that we become irresponsible and live like there is no tomorrow forsaking our familial or financial responsibilities. It means learn how to appreciate today. The encounters with others, including co-workers families, strangers. Notice the sunrise, the sunset, the flowers, and the wind. Live today as if it might be your last, with the capability that it might not be. If you do this you will live this life more fully and abundantly. Because in all reality today is your life PERIOD. Yesterday is history, and nothing you do can change it, and Tomorrow might not come, or might be completely different that anything you would have thought. And if you live today to the fullest. Than tomorrow will take care of itself and you’ll be all set to repeat the procedure of abundance.
Remember God does not create garbage

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