Real 12 Step Recovery
Real 12 Step Recovery, Getting and Staying Clean and Sober
WELCOME Hi There, this blog will be about what I believe to be REAL RECOVERY not band aids or feel good BS These are the hard cold true facts that I have learned and been taught by OLD TIMERS and People WHO HAVE REMAINED CLEAN and SOBER and "GOT A LIFE".There will be no original thoughts here, Because in essence there are no original thoughts only perhaps originals and/or different ways to present or illustrate old Ideas.Now that this is understood lets get to the heart of the matter. Recovery is not about coddling or enabling. IT IS LIFE CHANGING. PERIOD WELCOME to the hardest thing that you will do in YOUR LIFE. Make no mistake, Real recovery is not EASY, it is simple, very simple, Yet you will make it hard, as all before you have. Also let's get this STRAIGHT right off the top. REAL RECOVERY has nothing to do about ALCOHOL and/or Drugs. IT IS about the way you react to life, your perceptions, and YOUR actions. Alcohol and/or Drugs are just a symptom of YOUR disease. Take notice of the word DISEASE - Which in our case translates to ILL AT EASE or simply not at ease, which is the basic nature of our problem and answer to our solution.Back to why I state that this is the hardest thing you will do. I state this because Real Recovery Will challenge everything you know/believe or really what you think you know, Because you really don't know SHIT or you wouldn't need recovery. It will make you face the truth about your biggest problem YOU and YOUR THINKING. You will face the real you not the one we would like to see with all the justifications and rationalizations just the TRUE YOU.REMEMBER GOD DOES NOT CREATE GARBAGE >>>>>>>> If you have a request or enquiry Please Email me at wiledchild@live.ca I'd like to add one other thing here for all those who read this Blog. It's something that was taught to me That was invaluable to my recovery My Spiritual Advisor Taught me this. Don't believe a word I say , do not take what I say as the truth just because I say it or anybody else, for that matter. Check it out for yourself. Try it on for size. Investigate , find out for YOURSELF only use what you have read or heard as a reference point. Find the truth out for yourself . This way it is your TRUTH not someone else's. You will also not be believing a lie or untruth if you always check things for yourself . Do not believe everything you are told or read without checking it out.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Smell the roses or is it Pine

How is everybody today? Good. I hope. You know I have a dear friend and that question, is her pet peeve. Did you ever notice how often we are greeted by this comment, as a way of greeting? Most people ask expecting a one word or short sentence answer. Most people if you really expound on the answer are stopped in their tracks, they weren’t really expecting a real answer. This is what her issue was with this kind of greeting. Don’t ask if you really do not want to hear the answer, especially if you do not have the time to sit down and really hear and possibly discuss the answer. Well when I heard her say this I had to think about it. You know the more I thought about the more I began to see her point. Even that she was not in a good mood when she told me this she had a few issues cropping up in her life at the time. To say this or use it as a greeting, and not being prepared to spend the time and the effort to here a truthful and expanded answer. All I was doing was doing an old behaviour; I’m feigning interest in that particular person. I’m not being real or genuine.

Anyways I spent a lot of the day digging out Christmas decorations, and putting up the tree, the outside lights, and a few trimmings and lights on the tree. I didn’t put on the ornaments and the nativity scene though as I save that for us to do as a family. However our outside lights have a music box with them that plays a couple of carols with them. As I was sitting having a cigarette and coffee (admiring my work) outside listening to the Christmas music. I got one of those nice contented—“everything is good in my world” feelings you know just feeling happy contented and at peace. It just reminded me, that no matter what is going on in your life. That just sitting back, occasionally and taking a break from life to smell the roses and be grateful for what is in your life. Can be quite refreshing and beneficial to the soul.
Remember God does not create garbage

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