Hi, I just want to clarify something from the previous post about “doing what’s right and Doing what’s right in front of you”. This is perhaps one of the greatest pieces of life skill you can master. However to master this, will not come overnight. However this is not the point of this post. It would seem that for some reason addicts/alcoholics come into this fellowship and whether they get into the program or not, they hear some of these tools. Then they start to apply them and then some problem or issue comes up and they start berating the program and/or the fellowship. They start saying things like “this stuff doesn’t work” or it’s a scam or a cult. They say these things out of frustration and/or anger. For some strange reason they had believed that when they came in and started to apply these tools and way of life, that everything that people were saying about how their life would get better and they’d have a life that they’d never imagined, would magically start happening immediately. The cold hard facts are- it takes time to change the course your life has been on for, how long? Year’s decades. Turning this around is not going to happen overnight. It takes hard work, self examination, changing the way you act, speak, react your thinking patterns. It is definitely not going to suddenly make your life like a fairy tale and you go off and “Happily ever after”. Shit still happens, by the way shit happens is totally wrong,. The real term is Life Happens. These tools and way of life will eliminate some of the predicaments that your previous lifestyle created. They will also keep you from making “mountains out of mole hills”. They will also keep you from making an issue or life problem 10 to 100 times worse. This is an inside job. Only you can make your life better, all we can do is show you what we had to do, learn. And point you to the path we took. We can hold your hand, listen, and share however you must do your own work to get the rewards.
Remember God does not make garbage

Real 12 Step Recovery
Real 12 Step Recovery, Getting and Staying Clean and Sober
WELCOME Hi There, this blog will be about what I believe to be REAL RECOVERY not band aids or feel good BS These are the hard cold true facts that I have learned and been taught by OLD TIMERS and People WHO HAVE REMAINED CLEAN and SOBER and "GOT A LIFE".There will be no original thoughts here, Because in essence there are no original thoughts only perhaps originals and/or different ways to present or illustrate old Ideas.Now that this is understood lets get to the heart of the matter. Recovery is not about coddling or enabling. IT IS LIFE CHANGING. PERIOD WELCOME to the hardest thing that you will do in YOUR LIFE. Make no mistake, Real recovery is not EASY, it is simple, very simple, Yet you will make it hard, as all before you have. Also let's get this STRAIGHT right off the top. REAL RECOVERY has nothing to do about ALCOHOL and/or Drugs. IT IS about the way you react to life, your perceptions, and YOUR actions. Alcohol and/or Drugs are just a symptom of YOUR disease. Take notice of the word DISEASE - Which in our case translates to ILL AT EASE or simply not at ease, which is the basic nature of our problem and answer to our solution.Back to why I state that this is the hardest thing you will do. I state this because Real Recovery Will challenge everything you know/believe or really what you think you know, Because you really don't know SHIT or you wouldn't need recovery. It will make you face the truth about your biggest problem YOU and YOUR THINKING. You will face the real you not the one we would like to see with all the justifications and rationalizations just the TRUE YOU.REMEMBER GOD DOES NOT CREATE GARBAGE >>>>>>>> If you have a request or enquiry Please Email me at wiledchild@live.ca I'd like to add one other thing here for all those who read this Blog. It's something that was taught to me That was invaluable to my recovery My Spiritual Advisor Taught me this. Don't believe a word I say , do not take what I say as the truth just because I say it or anybody else, for that matter. Check it out for yourself. Try it on for size. Investigate , find out for YOURSELF only use what you have read or heard as a reference point. Find the truth out for yourself . This way it is your TRUTH not someone else's. You will also not be believing a lie or untruth if you always check things for yourself . Do not believe everything you are told or read without checking it out.
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
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