When times are down, or when your not feeling so good about life when life happens, things are not going the way you wish they would or just plain down. One of the best tools you can use is The Gratitude List.
What you do is grab a pen and paper and start writing down the things your grateful for. Starting with just the material items you may have then add on the other aspects of your current life , such as a recovery community, meetings, family, sponsor, recovery friends and so on. Then go on to include the things that we normally take for granted such as, The use of a brain, eyesight, the use of limbs that work, living in the moment, I mean right at this moment are you starving , like many others around the world, do you have a roof over your head, again unlike many others around the world, the owning or at the very least access to a computer (your reading this), many around the world do not have this., Take a good look in the country you live in compared to many other countries around the world and all the things we take for granted that are luxuries in other parts of the world. A loving God who cherishes and adores you. Are things really so bad, or are you just being ungrateful for what you do have, and a little down because your "WANTS" are all not fulfilled. For true happiness we need to learn to be happy with what we have Rather than happy for the things we want. Point of interest as soon as one of our wants are fulfilled there are ten to take its place. So if your only happy when your wants are fulfilled you will never be happy. Happiness comes from within, Not from outside stuff.
remember God does not make garbage

Real 12 Step Recovery
Real 12 Step Recovery, Getting and Staying Clean and Sober
WELCOME Hi There, this blog will be about what I believe to be REAL RECOVERY not band aids or feel good BS These are the hard cold true facts that I have learned and been taught by OLD TIMERS and People WHO HAVE REMAINED CLEAN and SOBER and "GOT A LIFE".There will be no original thoughts here, Because in essence there are no original thoughts only perhaps originals and/or different ways to present or illustrate old Ideas.Now that this is understood lets get to the heart of the matter. Recovery is not about coddling or enabling. IT IS LIFE CHANGING. PERIOD WELCOME to the hardest thing that you will do in YOUR LIFE. Make no mistake, Real recovery is not EASY, it is simple, very simple, Yet you will make it hard, as all before you have. Also let's get this STRAIGHT right off the top. REAL RECOVERY has nothing to do about ALCOHOL and/or Drugs. IT IS about the way you react to life, your perceptions, and YOUR actions. Alcohol and/or Drugs are just a symptom of YOUR disease. Take notice of the word DISEASE - Which in our case translates to ILL AT EASE or simply not at ease, which is the basic nature of our problem and answer to our solution.Back to why I state that this is the hardest thing you will do. I state this because Real Recovery Will challenge everything you know/believe or really what you think you know, Because you really don't know SHIT or you wouldn't need recovery. It will make you face the truth about your biggest problem YOU and YOUR THINKING. You will face the real you not the one we would like to see with all the justifications and rationalizations just the TRUE YOU.REMEMBER GOD DOES NOT CREATE GARBAGE >>>>>>>> If you have a request or enquiry Please Email me at wiledchild@live.ca I'd like to add one other thing here for all those who read this Blog. It's something that was taught to me That was invaluable to my recovery My Spiritual Advisor Taught me this. Don't believe a word I say , do not take what I say as the truth just because I say it or anybody else, for that matter. Check it out for yourself. Try it on for size. Investigate , find out for YOURSELF only use what you have read or heard as a reference point. Find the truth out for yourself . This way it is your TRUTH not someone else's. You will also not be believing a lie or untruth if you always check things for yourself . Do not believe everything you are told or read without checking it out.
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
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